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Karachi, Unfiltered: Chaos, Kindness, and Connection !

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  People say all kinds of things about Karachi and honestly, I never really bought into it. Sure, we’re all out here hustling, surviving this wild economy, always on our toes. But today… Karachi reminded me who she really is. So, picture this: I’m out driving, vibing and boom, my car breaks down. Not once, but twice. I somehow roll up to the nearest traffic police station, fully expecting a “good luck with that” situation. But instead? The officer helps me. Calls a mechanic. Sorts everything out. And neither of them tried to rip me off in fact, the officer made sure I got a fair price. Now here’s the part that gave me goosebumps: I’m a Christian. The officer was Muslim. The mechanic was Hindu. No labels, no bias — just three people from three faiths coming together to help a fellow human. This is the Karachi I know and love messy, chaotic, generous, diverse, and full of heart. The city of lights, biryani, breakdowns, and big-hearted people. Long story short: kindness still exists....

Thirty, Quirky, and Finally Home by Eight !

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  In my thirties now, and oh what a phase, Trading wild nights for calmer days. Yes, I’m aging laugh lines grow, But with them comes a lovely glow. I’ve found my voice, I’ve drawn my line, I say “no thanks” and still feel fine. No more chasing what won’t stay, If it brings no joy, I walk away. A concert? Yes, but make it solo, Just me, my tunes, a private show though. Dancing barefoot, water in hand, In my cozy, cluttered, quiet land. I’m married now, and peace is gold, We argue ‘bout the thermostat but behold! That kind of love, it grows with time, In matching sweats, we feel sublime. No FOMO here, I’m out the door By sunset back by half-past four I get it now those parental fears, Their wisdom echoes through the years. Becoming Mom? I see it clear, The apron, sighs, and all that cheer. And honestly, it’s not that bad Being “mature” is kind of rad. So here’s to rest and herbal tea, And knowing just who I want to be Thirty-something, wise and free ...

A Seed of Change !

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 Lately I've learned life's a mystery deep,
Too wild to predict, too fragile to keep.
No use in regrets or fearing what's near,
The moment is now—be present, sincere. Each morning I rise, I silently pray,
Grateful my feet touch the ground today.
Humble in heart, with peace as my guide,
I walk through the storm, with love by my side. Let things just flow, let kindness be shown,
Forgive and release all the hurt I’ve known.
Love with no limits, give all I can give,
For this is the only true way to live. Don’t act like another, don’t play a part,
Stop the comparing—it breaks the heart.
Each breath’s a blessing, each moment a chance,
To break from the numbness and truly dance. The world is aching, the skies are gray,
Not by nukes—but worry eats us away.
We build up walls, then tear down trust,
Chasing tomorrows that turn into dust. We witness war, see children cry,
Nations fall under a blood-red sky.
What are we doing? Where is the grace?
We've made a mess of this sacred pla...

I Am Woman, Hear the Divine

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  I am a blessing, sent from the skies,
The spark in your soul, the truth in your eyes.
I am your daughter, your blood, your light,
Your savior who rises through every night. I birthed the stars, the moon, the sea,
The echo of life flows through me.
God hears my prayers, both loud and low,
God made me equal this I know. Never your servant, nor your slave,
But a favor from Heaven, divinely brave.
Yet when I say NO, I’m met with death,
Silenced still with every breath. I bite my tongue, I hide my pain,
But storms are building in my vein.
Enough! I roar, I've cried too long,
My silence was mistaken for being wrong. If I choose to pray for your downfall's day,
You’d vanish like dust, swept away.
If I can turn the world around,
Imagine the strength where I'm truly unbound. A miracle born, a soul so grand,
A savior shaped by God’s own hand.
I am a woman, grace and might,
A sacred flame, eternal light. Don’t take me lightly, don’t dismiss,
I’m more than pain, more than this.
No lo...

I know now !

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  I know now what love feels like It’s calm, it’s steady, never spike. A gentle hand, a steady flame, That shows up daily, just the same. It isn’t selfish, full of doubt, It doesn’t scream or shut you out. It’s patient through the storms and pain, A quiet trust that will remain. It takes some time, it needs to grow, With space to breathe, and room to flow. It’s healing wounds we used to hide, And standing softly by your side. It’s knowing, deep within your soul, That being you is always whole. No need to change, no mask to wear  Real love is simply being there ☘️

The Power of Appreciation; Understanding True Connections

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  A recent thought crossed my mind as I revisited my Counselling Practices lectures. I've been journaling and realized that after 31 years, I’ve been giving so much power to the opinions of my friends and family, letting them critique me without considering my own worth. It's okay to receive constructive criticism it helps us grow. A fresh perspective can guide us and calm us during times of anxiety. But somewhere along the way, we’ve forgotten that words of affirmation, appreciation, and acknowledgment of someone's efforts can truly make a difference. For years, I hoped my friends would offer this, but instead, I encountered some who would devalue and mock my work, even telling me to my face, "This seems like a joke," when others praised it. It’s as though they never wanted people to see how good I could be. I’ve always lived by the motto “live and let others live,” without being manipulative or meddling in other people's business. But here’s the truth: a...

The Journey of Marriage: Embracing Growth, Love, and Dependency

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  I hope this message finds you all well. It's been a while since my last article, and I have to admit, life has been quite the whirlwind. I've been busy folding, wrapping, twisting, and tidying up this new phase of my life. Ms. Sana Bhatti is no longer a "Miss," but a "Mrs." Growing up in Pakistan, it's every parent's dream to see their daughter transition from a single woman to a wife. It's a beautiful milestone, and yet, it comes with its own set of lessons and challenges. Marriage is not just about learning the other person; it’s also a journey of self-discovery. It teaches you so much about your own boundaries, desires, and how to merge your world with someone else's. Understanding and accepting an entire human being who will be by your side 24/7 can feel both daunting and exhilarating. While I strongly believe in taking time to settle into this new chapter, let's also acknowledge that we, as humans, crave companionship and emotional...